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Tuesday, November 11, 2008

IM NOT RELAXING!! GET OVER IT!

SO AS FAR AS SUPPORT FROM HOME, IM GETTING IT.. MY SO'S ONLY GRIP IS ME WEARING THIS BUN EVERYDAY, BUT I ASSURED HIM THAT ONCE IT GOT INTO A "SAFETY ZONE" (BELOW APL) HE'D SEE LESS OF THE BUN (MAYBE 2 OR 3 TIMES A WEEK INSTEAD OF EVERYDAY) AND HE'S AGAINST ME SLOWLY TRIMMING AWAY THE RELAXED ENDS (EVEN THOUGH I ONLY HAVE 1/2 AN INCH IN SOME PLACES) HE'D RATHER ME WAIT UNTIL NEXT SUMMER WHEN WE MOVE TO CALI.. OK COOL IM COOL WITH THAT... HE LOVES MY HAIR AND PREFERS BRAID-OUTS TO BUNS....

BUT THEN THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE (THE ONES I DONT SEE EVERYDAY) THAT WILL SEE MY HAIR STRAIGHT, FIND OUT I HAVENT HAD A RELAXER IN OVER A YEAR, AND THEIR FIRST RESPONSE IS ALWAYS... "GIRL DO YOU KNOW HOW LONG YOUR HAIR WOULD BE IF YOU GOT A RELAXER?!!!?!?!?!"... AND I ALWAYS JUST SMILE AND SAY.. "YEAH i KNOW"...

OF COURSE THESE ARE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO KNOWLEDGE IN THE HAIR GAME AND DONT KNOW ANY BETTER SO OF COURSE I IGNORE THEM... MY HAIR ISNT HARD TO DEAL WITH AND I ENJOY THE TIME WE SPEND TOGETHER (LOL)... MY CHI GIVES ME RELAXER TYPE RESULTS, WITHOUT HEAT DAMAGE, AND IM CONTENT WITH THAT, VERY CONTENT... EVEN IF IT DOES ONLY LAST ABOUT 3 OR 4 DAYS...AND BESIDES, MY HAIR IS THICK AND HEALTHY, SO WITH THAT SAID... I'LL BE HERE TO OFFER SOME TIPS WHENEVER YOURE READY!! GET AT ME!!!

2 comments:

Traycee said...

Hey dont listen to people..There are a set of people that want me to go natural and another set that would be like what are you doing..

You have to do what makes you happy..And not everyone else..

Congrats on a year ...That is a great accomplishment

Southern_diva_natural said...

i know traycee.. thanks!!! im very happy with my decision... hence the reason its been a year already... even though ur relaxed ur still one of my hair idols